Not All Transitions Have the Same End Goal

Cis people, please learn that not all transitions mean having “the surgery,” and stop calling it that!

Most of the time, for both of our faults, I and my father don’t really talk. Ever since I’ve come out as trans, we have periods of silence, superficial peace, and then the dreaded “trans talk” which starts the whole cycle over again. Unfortunately for me, we skipped from silence to the talk, and as I lied on my squishy comforter, I wasn’t feeling very… comforted. I’d been on HRT for about…